Self-Development Test

1. Do you have problems with relationships, work, sex, drugs/alcohol, or other addictions?
   
   
2. Are painful memories of "mere" neglect, or physical, emotional, spiritual, and/or sexual abuse preventing you from living to your full potential?
   
   
3. Are you dependant upon others to take care of you because you don’t believe you can take care of yourself, and/or, are co-dependant with others as you each drag the other down?
   
   
4. Do you spin-your-wheels in tug-of-war relationships without your heart’s desires? Are you motivated by an inner-sense, a conscious knowingness that you’re walking the path of your Destiny?
   
   
5. Are you a "people pleaser" who constantly tries to do what others want you to do, then end-up filled with resentment, but don’t understand why you’re so irritable?
   
   
6. Do you have esteem for your Self or do you even have a Self to esteem because it’s still undeveloped -- just waiting for you to discover who you really are?
   
   
7. When you were growing up, did you long for someone to look into your eyes and tell you how wonderful you are just for being you?
   
   
8. Are you still yearning to be valued for the uniqueness of your individual qualities, your gifts that only you have to offer -- your Spirit’s "fingerprints"? Our Spirit is our authentic Self.
   
   
9. Is your Spirit alive with passionate anticipation of each days potential, or is it broken and hiding and you dread getting out of bed? Or, were you allowed to take risks as a child so you could discover who you are?
   
   

10. Was there someone who nurtured your instinctive drive for Self-Discovery and comforted your pain from mistakes, but then encouraged you to get back out there and try again until you learned how to create what felt right for "you"?
    
    

11. Or, were you stopped from exploring your passions with the message that "father/mother/religion/society, ‘others’ know best," so you’re stuck with guilty, fear-riddled messages telling you that you shouldn’t do what you want, but must do what they say to do and be? Who are "they" anyway?

RESULTS: Your answers reveal where THE STEPS will work for you!